Friday, October 26, 1984

Its been 2 months since I last wrote in my journal and lots of things have happened.  Ladell Hunt died after he and his wife were in a bad car wreck in Mesa.  Fawn was hospitalized for many days.

We decided not to move to the valley.  Loye has been busy working here.

School has started with all the fun and activities that go along with that.

Cassie and Tami are Loboettes they are the cutest ones there I think, but then I never watch anyone else.

Jason is trying to play football at the Jr. High but the coaches aren't really giving him much of an opportunity.

Kay and Mitzi finally got married after going together for years.  Their reception was the big event of the year and I think everyone turned out for it.  It was held in the yard of Howard and Mini Ramsey, grandparents of Mitzi, it was really a nice affair.

Heather was baptized on her birthday Oct. 1 her Dad baptized and confirmed her, Loye and I gave talks.  She is a sweet little girl.

September 30 we all went down to Payson to meet Dahl, Josh, Jacob and Lindsey to celebrate Josh's birthday  We had fun.

We have been busily hauling wood, but we have lots more we need to haul  I really enjoy getting out.  One day Loye, Jason and I were out and we seen a bear.  Jason was walking along hunting squirrels with his BB gun when we hollered at him that there was a bear he come a flying to the pick-up his eyes big as saucers.  But the bear was pretty undisturbed and just sauntered off into the forest  We also seen a deer, it is just beautiful in the forest.

Rick's 26th Oct. 4th
Amanda 3rd Sept. 19th
Cassie's 17th Aug 27
Kris' 13th Aug 30
Tami's 16th Sept 6
Heather's 8 Oct. 1
Josh 19th Oct. 1
Jacob's 5 Oct. 7
Mom's 76th Oct. 6

Sunday, August 26, 1984

Here the summer is practically over and tomorrow school starts again, makes you wonder where in the world the time has gone.

I will start working at the school as a cook again, but we are thinking of moving to the valley where we will manage some apartments.  They will give us an apartment to live in and pay our utilities including our phone bill, so it sounds like a pretty good deal they will also give us $500 a month.  Loye will be able to work else-where to earn money so I think it would be good that way and Loye does seem to geel better down there.  But, I can hardley bear to break home ties here in Taylor.  Jared wants to buy our home so we will just be foot-loose and fancy-free with no place to call home.

Mom, Sheree, Cathy and I took Judy to the El Ranch in Snowflake to eat for her 45th birthday.

On the 23rd, Mom, Liza, and I took Loyeline to Pinetop El Rancho to eat for her 32nd birthday.  It is so pretty up in the mountains.  On the way home it had rained right along in front of us or I should say just poured cause there was water running down all the gullies and in one place it was just pouring from over the top of a cut just like a water fall.  I have never seen the water running like that and in a way it was beautiful but it was also pretty destructive.

Last night we went to Scott's reception and it was pretty nice.  Decorations were just right and the refreshments and program was all really nice.

Jason's 12th birthday was on the August 10.

Dahl's birthday August 13.

Lindsey's 3rd August 18.

Monday, August 6, 1984

Well there's one more week of Olympic's and I hope this next week is as good as the last week has been.  U.S.A. has won so many Gold Medals.  Peter Vidmar (a mormon) was on the men's gymnastics team who won gold medals, along with Bart Conners, Mitch Gaylord, Tim Daggett and Scott Johnson.  They were very good sports.  Even though the girls didn't win the Gold they did get the Silver.  They were led by Mary Lou Retton and Julie Anne McNamara.  Joan Benoit won the ladies 26 mile Marathon  The U.S.A. Women's volleyball team hasn't been beat yet.  Our boxers are doing very good in fact this morning on the news it was said we had 92 medals and the closest to that was German with 30 (some odd).

Yesterday was Loye's 56th birthday.  The kids too us up to Asia Garden's to eat.  Roger and Cathy, Loyelin, Mark and Liza, Jared and Dennise, and Jason.  It was real nice and we enjoyed being with the kids.

Today I rode up to Show Low with Katie she had to go to the dentist and I had to go to the bank and to the gas co.  I would like to take a class this winter on money management, if I thought I would pass, but I'm sure no good at figures.  i guess that's why we are always so poor.

Uncle John Ballard says we had better have our years supply of food because after the presidential election this year.  "All hell is going to break loose."  I hope he's wrong, but, the time is getting so close to the coming of the Savior, we must try to be prepared.  And I don't think my kids are prepared at all.

Last Sat. Elbert Lewis was re-baptized into the church.  He was president of the Show Low Stake but was excommunicated because of his mismanagement of church funds this happened about 7 or 8 years ago.  His wife died of cancer so he married his 1st wife's sister.  They are Gerry and Carol Ozment daughters of Lester and Ruth.  Anyway it was a real happy occasion for everyone who knew them.


Monday, July 30, 1984

I misplaced this journal so I haven't been able to write in it.  Since I last wrote we have had a Willis Reunion.  Roger, Geneva Horne and Rhonda Smith were in charge of it  It was really a nice affair.  It was held at the school down here and my family was all there except Jim, Shanna, and Rick Aceves (he is assistant manager at the Bayless store in Lakeside so was unable to make it.)

We pitched horseshoes, had races, had some "Dummer Olympic Games", had a program and of course lots of good food.  Geneva had a book printed about Clad and Eva Willis and their family.  It really is a nice book.

We have spent most of the summer in the valley helping Loye.  But since he is about through I didn't go back down with him.

Well Jared and Denise wants to postpone it as she has some more thinking to do.  I think Jared was pretty upset about it  I sure hope things work out for them  We have really been impressed with her, and I would feel real bad if they don't get together  It's too bad she don't realize what a good person Jared is.

Loye isn't here and I really miss him when he is gone.

Josh went back to the valley with Randy and Kay.

It's funny how kids never know until they get children of their own what an overwhelming responsibility it is to raise them, and I really never realized it until now.

The Olympics from Los Angeles are on and it is really interesting to watch all of these great athletes perform.  U.S.A has already won a bunch of Gold Medals.


Monday, July 2, 1984

We are still in the valley finishing these apartments.  I am going to finish my cleaning this week and then I'm going home to satay.  I guess we really pulled a boo-boo by hiring some Mexican ladies to help us clean.  Larry Richardson (the general Manager for N.K. Lewis) hasn't paid us yet so we haven't paid the ladies so they went to the labor commission and they are after Larry and Norman Lewis.  I sure wish some times you could turn back time and re-do some of the mistakes we make.

Even though I feel depressed tonight we did have a good time over the weekend.  Don and Judy's family sponsored the Roger's Family Reunion at Los Burros (up above Vernon) this year.  It was really nice, the area up there was just beautiful, and Don, Judy and family really had things set up nice.  They had everything so organized, Rion and Bonnie were there to do their part and Scott and Kendra (who plan to get married Aug. 23) were really a big help.  Eric and Robbie also really helped.  Becky and Gene who are living in Louisiana were unable to be there as they plan to come to Scott's wedding in August.

This year they made a plaque for the winners of the horseshoe pitching tournament.  Rion made it and it's a traveling trophy whoever wins it gets to keep it until the next year when they have to give it up to whoever wins it next year.  Well this year Loye and I won it.  Rion took it to have our names engraved on ti.  They also played volleyball and since this is the year of the "Summer Olympics" in Los Angeles we had the "Dummer Olympics at Los Burros".  Everyone participated and all had a good time.  Even Mom seemed to enjoy herself.

Some of my family was there, of course Jim and Shanna couldn't make it.  Mark was working graveyard so him and Liza didn't go, we took Candon and Rikki with us.  The rest of us had a good time.

Jared told us Sunday that he is going to marry Denise McCray Caldwell.  She has been married before and has a little boy called J.J.  We think Jared has made a good choice because her family seems to be good people and Jared seems to be so happy with her.  She went up to the reunion with Jared and she seems to have a good time  They haven't set a date yet.

Jared wants to buy our house and we told him we would sell to him.  We would build a new house up on the corner, up on the hill.  Loye has always wanted to build there.

We are back in the valley, hopefully this week we will get through, but who knows?

Rikki came down with us, so each day we take her over to St Joseph's for her radiation treatment.

Tomorrow is the 4th of July so I guess we will go to a movie or maybe some fireworks if we can find them.

Friday, June 22, 1984

Grandma Willis got her medication all straightened out and she has to have daily shots of insulin but she is feeling lots better.  However my mom is feeling worse and no one seems to know what is wrong with her.

Well school is out now and we are in the valley with Loye cleaning the apartments that Loye has been working on al winter and it is really a big job.  We had 4 mexican ladies come in and help us, but they were earning all the money available so we had to let them go.  So Liza and I are cleaning them, along with Loye and Jason's help.

Liza is down here with Rikki so she can have her radiation treatments.  It sure is making her more uncoordinated.  Liza also brought all the kids down with her, so they have been over here helping us.

It seems that every time I write in this book there is a whole list of people that have died, and this time is no different.  Ladd Elsworth fell about 200 ft. from a cliff down by Pine.  Thelma hatch was killed in a car wreck when she pulled out in front of an oncoming car and Thelma and 2 young people were all killed instantly.  Della Webb died of a heart attack, and young Troy Owens was killed on a motorcycle, he was killed coming home from the service.

Amy Lewis married Glenn Whetton in the Mesa Temple June 15, 1984.  Tony was sealed to them on the 16th they were honored at a reception in Taylor where they had a real nice program.  Sheree had made dresses for each of the girls in pastel colors and they were all made alike.  Benda's was orchid, Karlie's was yellow, Ivy's was green, Tana's was blue, Vera's was pink and Megan's was peach.  They served cake and punch and salted nuts and mints.

Today was Liza's 23rd birthday.

Tuesday, May 15, 1984

Well Loye's mother has really been bad since I last wrote in this journal.  Katie has missed several days work taking her to the Dr. sitting with her etc.  She now has to have an insulin shot every day.  Also she has to have help going to the bathroom.  She gets awful sluggish in her speech.  It's pitiful to see her so helpless when she has always been so active.  On the 27th of April, Loye's brothers and sisters and spouses took their mother over to "Trappers" to celebrate Evie's 78th birthday  All of the family was there. (The original family)  She seemed to enjoy it, but, hasn't been very well since.

Anna Lou and Sheryl Lillywhite were in taylor to spend "Mother's Day" with Mom.  Sheryl just returned home from a mission in the Des Moines, Iowa mission on the 11th of May.  Anna Lou has been home a little longer.

Josh has announced his intention to go on a mission.  I just pray that he really will go.  If he goes with the same determination he has in playing ball, he will be a great missionary.

Mark and Liza took Rikki out to Flagstaff for a check-up last Monday.  They are going to have to spend 1 month in the valley so she can have radium treatments.  My heart just grieves to think she has to go through such ordeals.

Mark and Liza took Loy and I up to "Crozier's" for a "Mother's Day" dinner.  We went with Roger and Cathy in their car and Jared also went.  We had to go clear to Pinetop.  I always enjoy being with my family.  I love them all.

I really miss having Loye home.  I'll be so glad if he can ever get a job here at home again.

Jason has started playing "Little League" again this summer.  He has Lynn Hancock, Jerry Peck and Kent hall as his coaches with Brett Hancock, Clinton Peck and Ryan Hall as the main players on the team.  Jason, Ryan Hancock, Clinton Neff, Scott Hall, Steven Smithson, Tommy Hancock, Aaron Hudson, Brett Rapier and a few more I can't remember just now, are all fillers on the team.  Hopefully they will make the main players look good, if they don't they get pulled and someone else goes in.  It's a pretty political game.  Anyway they beat their opening game against the Orioles 28-8.

Thursday, May 3, 1984

We are certainly having financial difficulties that I don't know if we will survive through or not.  As of right now we owe $8,968.93 on our house with interesting adding up at $2.51 a day.  We have 66 months yet to pay which will be 5 1/2 yrs.  By that time Loye and I will be 60 years old.  I don't know what we will live on in our old age.  Starve I suppose.  Besides we have another accumulation of debts that amounts to $14, 290.10.  Which paid on faithfully can be paid off in 5 years.  Hopefully we won't get sick or anything and have work so we can make these payments.  So much for worries.

Loye is still working in the valley.  I sure wish he could find work here at home.  It gets pretty lonely here without him.

I need to pick over 40# beans so we can go down to the cannery Saturday and can them.  Merne Murder died April 28, his funeral was yesterday.  I went and it was pretty nice.  I didn't know him that well.

Loye's mother isn't feeling to good and she seems to get weaker all the time.

Mom feels fairly good expect her eyes have really been bothering her.

Sunday, April 29, 1984

Liza's baby was born last Friday April 27th at about 8:00 p.m.  The baby weighed 5# 5oz.  She is sure a cute baby with lots of black hair.  Liza had quite a hard time getting her here but I'm sure she is worth the effort.  I guess they will name her Tiffany Lyn although I favored the name Samantha Lyn.

Friday, April 27, 1984

More deaths in our area, Steve Clark, son of Glen and Carol Clark was killed in a truck accident out by Flagstaff leaving 6 children and a wife who is expecting a 7th child.  Also Byde Hancock died of heart complications this week.  Merne Muder who is suffering with cancer is expected to go just any minute.

Liza is in the hospital, I drove her up last night and stayed until Mark got there, then I came home about 2:00 am and stayed with their kids.  Here it is 11:00 and so far nothing has happened yet.  Jared (who just came up from the valley last night stayed with the kids until I got here.)

Judy's son Eric was elected student body president at the High School for the next year.

Sunday, April 22, 1984

Today was another cold Easter.  It has been so nice all month, (it even got up to 107 degrees in the valley) but today there was a north wind and so it was cold.  However in Colorado they had up to 3 ft. of snow, so I guess we are really lucky after all.

Since I last wrote in here.  Ed Muder has passed away.  His brother Merne is very bad off and has been for quite a while.  When they took Ed to the valley he said he would die before Merne and he did.  It seems like we got along pretty good for awhile and then people start dying until 3 to 6 have gone then it will let up for a while again.

This month I canned turkey at the cannery and had 73 cans when we got through I bought 1/2 batch.  It was fun going down there with Pearl, Lauana and Lorraine Solomon, Judy Tidwell, Teri Crook, Marie Duncan, Percy, Maxine, Bill, Sherry and Merline Hancock and Vera Palmer also Carl and Harriet Martin.  Work is really a breeze when you have lots of good help.

Shanna and Jim have moved into a new house (to them) that they are buying in Modesto California.

Loye, Roger, Jared, Josh and Dahl have all been working in the valley this last month.  Roger however is working in Alpine with Chan this past week and I guess he will be working there for a while.

Loyelin's baby Richard Edward Loye Aceves was blessed in church on the 1st day of April.  Loye blessed him, he is a real cute baby but he has congestion so much that I think he may have allergies.

On Wednesday April 18 I rode with Sheree to the valley to be with my family down there until Easter.  She (Sheree) was going to the valley to take Amy for an operation.  We met Amy and Glen Whetton (Amy's fiance) in Globe and they rode on down to Scottsdale Memorial Hospital where she was to have plastic surgery on her face.

They took me by Dahl and Shelley's where I spent the next 3 days.  Jason went with me and wanted to spend some tie with Willie but Willie had Valley Fever and didn't feel like doing much.  Jason went to work with Loye one day.  We went to the pageant "Jesus The Christ".  It was presented on the grounds on the North side of the temple.  It is a very impressive pageant.  Although the weather was cool the program was really good.  And scads of people were there.

Sat. morning we went through a session at the temple.  The High Council from our stake were having an excursion.  I always enjoy going to the temple.  Lots of our High Councilmen and wives were there.

While we were in the valley Loye Jared, Josh and I all went to Red Lobster to eat.  Then the night of the pageant Loye, Jason and I went with Dahl's family to Matta's to eat.  Always a good place to eat.  Too bad some of these neat things couldn't be strung out a little bit but oh well!

This morning we got up and Loye and I hid Easter eggs for Liza's kids.  Rikki wasn't feeling so she staggered around a little bit.  I sure do worry about that precious little girl.

Loyelin and her kids came by in their Easter Finery on their way from church.

Mark sang a solo in church and really did a good job.  He sang "In the Garden."  Russ Crossman and Scott Burt talked and they both did a good job.

Came home and fixed dinner then Loye had to go to High Council.  I have to finish getting Loye ready to go back to the valley.  So until next time.

Thursday, March 29, 1984

Here it has been over a month since I last wrote in this journal.  I must try to do better because I forget a lot of the important things that happen.  Merrill Brimhall (assistant principle at the High School) passed away after a heart operation, also Marion Gallagher (another teacher at the high school) fell off from a roof he was working on and never got over it.  Mike Ramsey (from Snowflake but an old time resident) died of a heart attack.  It seems like I have left someone out who has passed away but maybe it will come to me later.  Brent Garvin (Loye used to pitch against in softball) died with heart trouble.

Rikki survived her operation just fine.  It was determined she has a low-grade malignant tumor.  It is supposed to be slow-growing.  The doctor suggests radium treatments to kill the tumor.  These are so hard on her that I think Mark and Liza are going to try an alternative first.  It is such a worry but we are all praying for her.

Loyelin's baby has been in and out of the hospital a couple of times.  Once with pneumonia.  He seems to have very low resistance to colds and congestion.

Mom has felt better until just here lately and she complains of her stomach hurting her.  We have had some beautiful spring weather.  But according to the T.V. that will all change as we get a series of storms that will blow across our state.  We really had some  much needed moisture on Tuesday but I'm afraid that some of the fruit that was just about to blossom got froze.

After Rikki's operation I went to Mesa and spent 2 days down there.  I got to go eat lunch and visit with my dear friend and former neighbor, Shirley Knight.  I really enjoyed catching up on all the news of her family.  And I got to visit and play with my grandchildren Jacob and Lindsey they are such cute kids.  And Shelley was so thoughtful and good, I really enjoyed my visit to the valley.

Josh spent about 3 weeks home working with Roger but he has gone back to the valley now.

I've got to get ready for work, it's just about 6:30 am and I have to be there at 7.

Sunday, February 26, 1984

Today is Sunday I was the only one who went to meetings today.  As we went to the valley on the rooter bus yesterday to the state basketball game to watch Snowflake play Sahuaretao in the State Championship game where Snowflake won by 4 points in a real thriller.  We seen Dahl and Shelley and Jared and lots of people we know.  We got back at 1:30 a.m. and although we enjoyed our ride on the bus, we have been worn-out all day.

Sunday, January 22, 1984

Sunday-This past week has really passed by in a hurry.  Loye was in the valley from Monday until Friday evening, working.  Jason and I were home all week.  All we have to get around in is the pick-up and the battery isn't good in it so most of the time it will not start.

It seems that we always have so many money problems.  There is never enough to meet our needs.  I think we ought to take lessons on spending money.  I don't know if there is such a class or not.

Jared came home with Loye this weekend.  Saturday they with Roger killed and butchered 2 beefs.  Bishop Palmer helped them as they were using his facility.

Jason had a basketball game Sat. morning and they won their 1st game.  Leonard Hudson is his coach.  On the team besides Jason is Ryan Hall, Steven McCauley, Steve Maxwell, Aaron and Brian Hudson, Mark Hutchins and Jeff Penrod.  They are all pretty short but Jason so far has been the best shot.

Today also was Super Bowl Sunday 18 and the L.A. Raiders beat Washington Redskins 38-9.  Everyone thought the Redskins would win.  But I was partial to the Raiders.

We had a nice short church today.  Duane and Elaine Hensley and family were the speakers they did a good job talking on the importance of family home evenings.

This evening Loye had to go to High Council Meeting where they listened to Scott Ramsey report his mission.  Also he said Don and Judy both talked.

Tuesday, January 17, 1984

The reason I am writing tonight is because I feel depressed.  And when I'm depressed it is usually over money matters.  I guess I should be able to overcome this when other people have more depressing problems than I.  It's just that we are behind on our bank payments.  We don't know how to handle money so how could we possibly teach our children.  We do work hard and try but it seems we just can't get ahead.  I know when we have paid our tithing we have done much better in stretching our money.  The Lord does help those who obey his teachings.

Maybelle's sister Yvonne (Lady) Beck passed away and they had her funeral here in Taylor but they burried her in Shumway.  It was a hard thing for her children and Cora Sharp (Lady's Mother) and for Maybelle.

Judy has gone to the valley this week to take Eric so he can be put in traction, as he has a herniated disc in his back.  Eric is really discouraged over this because it just about ruins him for sports.  This last year he was quarterback for Snowflake team and was doing great in basketball when he got to having so much pain in his back he finally went to the Dr.

Loye was reassigned in his High Counselor duties.  He was given the mens sports back, also he has the Y.S.I. and this last weekend they had what was called Winter-Fest.  It was a multi-region get together and we really enjoyed it.

It began Friday evening with a dance in the Show Low Stake Center (since Show Low was in charge.)  At the dance they gave instructions on Square Dancing.  Also they served punch, sandwiches, vegetables and dips, and crackers.  Sat. was the day they had scheduled to ski and play in the snow.  The skiers made it to the ski run all right but the tubers didn't make it up to the tubing area because there was such a bad storm the roads were closed.  So everyone went over to the Stake Center and ate hot dogs and doughnuts we then came home and brought Jason and Cristina home.  Then we left Jason at Loyelin's and went back to Show Low to a Spanish supper and dance.  We were about danced out so we came home about 10:30.

Sun. morning we went up to the seminary building in Show Low and attended a testimony meeting also they invited David Bird (a seminary teacher from Flagstaff) to give a talk, he told some very interesting stories.  The meeting was one of the most spiritual I have ever attended.

Rikki game home from "Cranergarten" and told her mother she had been making "Show Lows" in school.  Liza said "Show Lows?"  Candon said "Rikki we were making Snowflakes."  She knew it was one of those towns.

On January 20th Harmon and Nadine Neff's house burned.